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Definition: Noun “Boredom - the feeling of being bored by something tedious” e.g. Boring, extremely dull, dry, unimaginative. Boredom is an emotional state experienced during periods lacking activity or when individuals are uninterested in the opportunities surrounding them. ...
Boredom often times is triggered when the activity (sex) we are engaged in lacks: excitement, interest, pleasure, satisfaction, adventure, basically it’s just not fun anymore.
Bedroom boredom has damaging effects on the entire relationship.
Often there are times in a relationship, when you simply get too comfortable with one another. It’s not that you don’t like sex or that you don’t love your partner; its just that life has taken over your bedroom! The stresses of family, finances, the job, this is usually when couples know they need to bring some of that intimacy, some of that passion that they used to have back into their relationship.
Studies have proven our moods are better, we are happier, we function better, when our bodies experience orgasms because of the secretion of oxytocin and other chemicals for our brain functions. Prolonged boredom can lead to feelings of loneliness, anger or depression.
Experiment - Explore – Experience – Sensual Play Time in Your Bedroom.
Perhaps because as adults we feel a need dictated by society to “play a role” and yet when kids play and have fun, they “role play’ e.g. doll house, doctor, tea party, race cars, toy soldiers, ……… we as adults need to learn how to role play, how to daydream and how to play with our partner in the bedroom.
Role Play with Sexy Outfits/ Costumes for it opens up the non verbal communications as a vehicle for complete enhanced communications , a key component for a healthy relationship.
Experiment with role playing…Explore desires…Experience new levels of sensuality…Spice it up!
"Boredom is a sign of satisfied ignorance, blunted apprehension, crass sympathies, dull understanding, feeble powers of attention and irreclaimable weakness of character" [James Bridie "Mr. Bolfry"]
"Boredom: the desire for desires" [Leo Tolstoy "Anna Karenina"]
Role Playing
Role playing - play therapy - fashioned after children's play therapy Have you ever noticed how children take on a different persona when they wear a mask. Or a costume or play the role ............ We as adults could benefit by learning from the way children play, the only difference are The Toys and the Ultimate Pleasures.
Couples Spice
With so many varieties of adult toys and couple’s games to choose from, guaranteed there are adult toys that will make you both of you happy and comfortable. The goal is to Experiment, Explore, Experience…
A fairly common couples foreplay technique, is mutual masturbation; masturbating individually, together as a couple. Partner masturbation is a foreplay sexual activity that over 60% of couples have engaged in and has many proven relationship benefits for those couples that engage in it. View More
Using a Vibrator During Intercourse Couples Position Tools/Slings Sex Sling - Cheetah
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